How to get your ex back - Read these tips before you give up trying!

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Are you giving up on a great relationship just because things went wrong and you broke up? Relationships are valuable, and good ones are hard to come by. It’s worth putting in time and effort to get back together.

Click here to learn exactly how to make your ex want you back.

The only problem is that you have to do it right. Too many people end up pushing their exes even further away by doing all the wrong things to try and win them back.

If you want to know how to get your ex back, here are some tips that will help you:

  • One of the most common reasons why relationships go bad is because people fail to build value around themselves and therefore end up taken for granted. You may have been too available, too accepting of things that didn’t go right and generally, your attitude towards yourself caused the other person not to value the relationship so much even though they may like you a lot. You need to fix this by rebuilding the value around yourself. Make sure, for example, that the other person hears that you are trying to date again. You create a scarcity mentality, and immediately you drive your own value up.

  • As you do this, stay in touch. Many people will break up and break contact then wonder how to get their ex back. You can’t get them back if you are not in communication with them, and the more you are out of the picture, the more time they have to move on. You don’t have to communicate at the same level as if you were still in the relationship, but a hello, how are you once or twice a week will ensure that you don’t get forgotten. Make sure that you keep your conversations light so that if they are going to come back to you, you have given them enough time to think about the relationship and where it ought to be going.

  • Did you know that if you are in a relationship for more than 1 year, you are less groomed than when you started? Get a makeover. It’s a self esteem boost for you, and people with a high self esteem are definitely more attractive than those with a low one. A lot of advice will talk about getting a makeover, but take it carefully. Don’t do a make-over for your ex. Do it for you.

  • You’ll be told a lot of suggestions, but never take advice that tells you to run after your ex. By doing that you have just dropped your value to zero. You have just told them that you are willing to do anything it takes, including throwing your self respect and self esteem through the window. No one wants to be with someone like that, and if they make up with you it will not be a good relationship and it may not last very long. Always let them know that you want them back, but let them do the chasing.

Some relationships are not worth saving. Always consider this even as you learn how to get your ex back. On the other hand, always remember that many, many happy relationships have had rocky patches and they were fixed and went on to thrive.

Click here to learn exactly how to make your ex want you back.