So you’re sitting there now wondering how you can go about getting your ex back right? You realize now that you’ve made the ultimate blunder and want to want to know one thing – how to get your ex back; whatever it takes.
But how are you going to go about doing this? Some pretty mean things were said and you’re not sure you can take all that back – if you can at all. She’s not answering your phone calls, e-mails or text messages and you’re really starting to run out of ideas.
Too many guys think that simply saying I’m sorry is going to be enough but sorry isn’t always enough to heal a deep emotional wound. You know that your ex-girlfriend will be thinking mostly with her heart right now and you’ve got to find a way to appeal to that part of her.
Now is not the time for logic or trying to reason with her. What you’ve got to do is wear your heart on your sleeve and tell her where you went wrong and how much she means to you.
If you really want to make a big impression on her then you’re going to need to make a grand gesture and create an apology video for her. If you’re really serious about getting her back then it’s something you’ve got to do.
You can record the video on your cell phone, camcorder or even just your webcam. The technology you use is entirely up to you – it’s the impact of video that’s really the most important thing here. You’re really putting yourself out there to show your ex just how much you care about her.
First things first: you need to decide on how you’re going to set the video up – you have a couple of options here. You can record the video with just your face and whatever happens to be in the background or you could record your video with your face and maybe some kind of romantic backdrop like the place you first met your ex girlfriend. Okay that might get you some weird stares from people but what you’re doing is really important so don’t let that bother you.
Another option is to create a slideshow of some of your favorite pictures when both you and your girlfriend were still together. And then just record yourself talking over this slideshow over this and send it to her. The visual impact of this could be exactly what you’re looking for.
Oh and of course you have the option of making the huge gesture of uploading the video to YouTube and e-mailing your ex girlfriend the link!
Personally I’d recommend that you let your ex-girlfriend see your face in the video. You need the sincerity of the apology to be really obvious and one of the best ways to achieve this is through your body language and especially to have as much eye contact with her in the video as possible. The eyes are the window to the soul after all; it’s also the first place a woman would check to see if you’re being sincere with her.
This is no time for macho or tough guy tactics because if you’ve really hurt your ex-girlfriend she’ll need to see your sensitive side to be sure that your apology to her is real. Obviously don’t overdo it and just sit there sobbing your way through the video ok?
Don’t let the fear or worry of making an apology video hold you back from getting back together with your ex – after all she means that much to you and if you love her that deeply then doing this simple thing shouldn’t matter.
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