Example apology letter to ex

Here is a sample letter to an ex girlfriend, which could easily be modified to work for an ex boyfriend as well…

Dear Amy,

I have been thinking a lot about how I hurt you, and I want to say I’m sorry. I understand why you don’t want to be with me any more. I agree it is a good idea.

Being away from you is hard on me, but I guess that after time goes by I won’t miss you so much. I hope, anyway, because I would hate to feel like this forever.

I know it was the last straw. I know you think you can’t trust me any more, after what I did. But please believe my apology. You mean more to me than anyone else does. You are the one I love.

Maybe after you have had some time away from me, you will want to talk to me again. If you ever need me, I will be there for you.

Love, Kevin

The guy who wrote The Magic of Making Up says that if you’re hoping to get back together with the one who dumped you, then writing a letter like this to the dumper — to agree with the breakup — is the first step.

The rest of the book talks about the steps after that, like the psychology part of dealing with your own emotions about being rejected, and then the exact psychological tactics that will work on your ex.

You probably see it advertised everywhere, but you should read our Magic of Making Up review. We answer a lot of questions our visitors ask about the book.