TW Jackson, the author of The Magic of Making Up system, likes to point out that the intense emotions you feel after your boyfriend has broken up with you will only drive him further away, if you aim them in his direction. "T Dub" says emotional words will only make an ex boyfriend become defensive, angry and distant.
What is a better alternative? Seek out God, and take all your pain, confusion, and longing to him. Pray. Pour your heart out with a prayer like this one...
Please, God, I'm hurting and I need Your help. He left me, and it's like he killed me. I don't know how to go on. I don't know how to fix this. I feel like he died too, because he's gone from my life. I have lost him, but I still love him. I wish he still loved me. I miss him so much. I want him back so bad. This hurting is awful, and I don't know how to make it better.
Please, God, help me understand. What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this? Was he lying when he said he loved me?
I'm asking You, God. I'm not strong enough to face this without You. Please, hold me up. Hold me close to You, and let me share Your strength.
Lord, please, why would You let this happen? Is this my fault? I need to understand, Lord, why he would rather be alone, than be with me. Does he have someone else? Why would he rather be with her, than be with me?
God, Thy will be done, but please let it be Your will to bring him back to me. Be with me, and help me understand him. Help me to be what he wants... what he needs. Help us work things out. Please God, make him talk to me, and be with us to help us communicate.
I'm begging You, Lord, to bring us back together. Let that be Your will, please. Let him belong to me, and me to him.
Amen.
Remember...
Faith in God is important, but it is also important to have faith in yourself, and to keep an optimistic outlook, even when you're hurting.
So, believe!
Believe that these things are true...
- You deserve a second chance.
- Two people, who were once drawn to each other enough to begin a relationship, can find a way to get back together after breaking apart.
- You can't control another person. You can't make your ex want something different. All you can control is yourself, and the actions you can take to make your ex want you back.
- No one you know is going to bring your ex back to you. But with God's help, you CAN do it yourself.
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